A spontaneous realization that I’m in Seoul, Korea. It’s been four years already. It’s nice to be with my family and a few of my best friends but that doesn’t define me. I almost forgot I was an American (legally speaking) and I always spoke English more fluently than Korean. May be that’s one reason why my communication skills were so horrible with my past encounters with other people. So my speaking got more timid and I became a shy person. Why should I be who I am when I wasn’t in the first place?